c4bl3fl4m3: sideways closeup of my face & right arm, circa 2008 (me new 2008)

Stardust & Broken Glass: A Journal

"We’re all such a mix of stardust and broken glass"

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Created on 2011-04-06 20:06:06 (#731639), last updated 2015-01-12 (144 weeks ago)

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Birthdate:May 20, 1982
Location:Takoma Park, Maryland, United States of America
So I've had this up for years (on my LJ) and I think I should change it a bit...

Hi! I'm C4bl3Fl4m3 (that's "CableFlame" to you non 1337-speakers). In a sentence, I'm a bi(pan)sexual, gender variant, non-monogamous, kinky, sexually radical, urban, computer & human sexuality & just all around general geek (notice the emphasis on geek) that's a size-positive BBW. I'm extremely multi-faceted and I'm very weird (I think in a good way.) I live in Takoma Park MD, a little family-friendly diverse hippy town on the border of Washington DC. Go... check out my interests. They tell more about me than I can here. I only wish you could have more than 150 interests.

I only enter into open relationships. I'm working on making being an adult sexuality educator my viable career.

Friending Policy:
1.) Anyone may friend me. Please do not ask for permission, because it's not like I could stop you from friending me anyway. If I really don't want you to read my journal, there are ways I can block you.
2.) However, don't be offended if I don't friend you back. Most likely, I'm not going to. I don't friend someone just because they have friended me. For the most part, if you're on my friends list, I know you personally. I have a few people on my friends list, very carefully chosen, that I don't know IRL that I read. I keep them around just for the sake of having the viewpoints of people I don't know. I've never had someone ask to have me add them to my friends list, but if it ever happened, I think I would definately say no. I'm extremely picky in my choice in Friends. If you're asking, most likely I wouldn't want to read yours anyway. So don't ask. I do check out the blogs of people who have added me, and if I really like them, I'll add them.
3.) If you're new to my journal, read the naming policy below. If you're not new, still read the naming policy below. You should already know this, but I never said it formally before, so you might not know this.

Naming Policy:
I do not put my real name on my journal. Nor do I put it in any pages it's linked to (hopefully) and I don't put it in any of my comments. This is because I want to be able to be completely and utterly authentically myself in my journal, and I can't do that if random people online know who this is linked to IRL. It's mostly just people I know IRL that read my journal, and they know my real name, and that's ok. Do not EVER post my real name (either first name, or last name, or any combination therein) or my real initials in either your DW, or in a comment in my journal. EVER. I take my anonymity very seriously on here. I won't out you if you don't out me. If you DO use my real name, I'll give you 1 day to change the post or to delete the comment and repost it w/o my name. If you don't, I'll use whatever resources are within my power to get the issue resolved. I know, I sound like an ass, but if you know the kinds of stuff I put in my journal, you'll understand.

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2600, activism, adhd, alternative menstrual products, anti-bush, anti-war, aquatic entomology, bawls guarana, bdsm, beethoven, big beautiful women, biking, birth control, bisexuality, bondage, books, bubble tea, calvin & hobbes, cheese, cities, computers, cuddling, curvy women, dancing, daria, dc voting rights, death, desire, doc ock, doctor octopus, doctor who, drag kinging, dream, duct tape, earthbound, eighth doctor, equality, erotic hypnotism, family guy, feminism, ffrp, foreign culture, free food, free form role play, free software, freedom of speech, freeform role play, geek girls, geek guys, geeks, gendo, gendo ikari, gideon graves, girl geeks, giving anal sex, gnu, goggles, hacking, halflife, hippy, homestar runner, house music, humanism, i wish for peace, ikari gendo, in extremo, indian food, irc, janeway, judaism, katamari damacy, kraftwerk, larp, liberal, linux, live action role play, luis royo, mad scientists, maryland, mass transit, masturbation, metro, morpheus, mountain dew, musicals, nature, new york city, ninth doctor, open source, open source software, orgasm, otto octavius, peace, pegging, philosophy, phreaking, pi, porn, qbasic, queer, radical faeries, sandman, sarcastic use of leetspeak, scott pilgrim, severus snape, sexuality, shalka doctor, shiny things, simpsons, singing, social engineering, spirituality, st: tng, stage combat, star trek: voyager, strongbad, subways, sushi, swimming, syndrome, tardis, team fortress, tenth doctor, the doctor, the endless, the incredibles, the keeper, the master,, thinking, toronto, travel, tux, unitarian universalism, v, v for vendetta, vadding, villains, vintage computers, washington dc, wine, wireless networks, women in technology, yoga, שלום
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